I saw another post about a girlfriend dropping her whole semester’s worth of money because she won a giveaway for 50 bitcoin and it reminded me of this bs that’s been happening in my life.
My mom has been going really hard into “online dating”. She’s fallen for one scam that I don’t remember the details of but the guy basically told her if she sends him money he’ll get her gold, and she cleared out both her account and her brother’s social security money for it, which was at least $1700 from what we’ve guessed. Which tells you how stupid she is.
My grandma comes home from work one day and she asks me what my mom’s address is. I don’t know at the top of my head. She tells me that my sibling’s grandma is getting texts from my mom stating that she’s going to kill herself. We drive to my mom’s house, we don’t go in because she through a fit about some other previous events so neither of us really want to talk to her, but we call the cops and they tell us to wait and that her roommate called the police. Here’s what they tell us when we get there and what we can piece together. She fell for another scam recently. She’s been planning for months to move to Delaware with a guy. This guy being the same guy that literally hacked her Facebook account which made EVERYONE worry something happened to her. She made this plan because she worried about my dad getting out of jail and murdering her (he molested me and we reported it, allegedly he had tried to kill her after we reported it before he went to jail but the first time I’m hearing of this is recently, although I don’t doubt it). She’s been saying for months “oh you’ll meet him at x holiday”, “you’ll meet him this weekend”. I didn’t get the details but she sent this guy the entirety of her money, which was at least the $1700 figure before. She didn’t have rent so she was supposed to be evicted.
My sibling’s grandma decides to bail her out and pay the landlord whatever he needs so she doesn’t get evicted and my sibling can continue to go to the same school. I’m so tired of everyone coming to my mom’s aide for her to continually fuck up. I’m so tired of hearing “oh next time this happens we’ll do something”. I am lucky to be an adult and I don’t have to be under her roof but that was forced, because I was cutting myself and trying to run away so it was either I go into foster care or I go with my grandma. My sibling isn’t acting out like this so he doesn’t get to get out. I never want him to get to that point but I’m so tired of complaining that my mom never does anything for him, she is never going to fix her behavior. She is never going to fix the fact that she only used our disabilities to get herself money so she never had to get a job again. I refuse to have sympathy for her. All I want is the best for my brother, and also want my mother to learn the lesson that you can’t repeatedly use and abuse others and expect an out. I’ll probably make more posts about my mom but rn I’m tired
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